Hope is a choice, strengthened through practice; not a reflection of light, but light itself.--David VonDrehle
Saturday, October 31, 2020
Friday Night With Friends
Friday, October 30, 2020
Halloween Cactus!
Tuesday, October 27, 2020
October Snow and the ever helpful Quinn
Sunday, October 25, 2020
Camping!
Sunday, October 18, 2020
Zooming right along!
In other things, I'm headed out in my camper/caravan. AKA Ceili tomorrow for four nights. It's time to empty her for the year and it will be good to get away and look at something different. These walls are starting to close in!
Still working on figuring out the photos, I think I'll be spending some time on that while out camping. I always try to take photos on these outings so I'll have something to work with.
Thursday, October 8, 2020
12 years
Twelve years ago today I wrote my first blog post. I had only learned of blogging the month before and had been hitting the "Next Blog" button from my SIL's blog.
2008 was the year of the doctor. My husband, Larry, had found a small lump in his thigh and after two needle biopsies and one open biopsy was diagnosed with. a pleomorphic liposarcoma. A rare soft tissue cancer that is presumed by the Veteran's Administration to have been caused by exposure to Agent Orange while serving in Vietnam.
During the summer he had radiation to the site and at the end of summer they removed a tumor about the size of a small cantaloupe. He spent days in the hospital. I spent days with him and each night I came home and made phone calls. One to each of our children (except the one who lived with me) and one to each of his sisters and to his mother. So six times I repeated the same message . I was exhausted.
The last day in the hospital the drain in the wound fell out and a month later it had filled with so much fluid that it burst open the incision site-twice. Once in the doctors office while the doctor was in the room. So, it was back to surgery to have the wound cleaned out and a new drain put in. More phone calls.
A CAT scan of his lungs was ordered and 16 tumors were found. So Chemo was begun. 5 days in the hospital, two weeks off and repeat. More time with him at the hospital, More phone calls.
That was when I decided to start a blog. I sent everyone the address and said I would update them all via the blog rather than by phone calls. That mostly worked-although sometimes they got impatient and called me!
There was more surgery, more chemo, more exhaustion for us all. Then after two courses of chemo didn't work he said no more. By then it was 2009. 2009 was the year he was laid to rest at the Veteran's Cemetery and we began a new normal.
The blog helped me manage stress during all this and has become an important part of my life. It helped me get out of my head and smile when smiling seemed pretty far away. Reading blogs from all over the world has been amazing! I don't plan to quit even if sometimes it might be a while between posts!
Tuesday, October 6, 2020
Other September Goings on
September is the month I try to make all the doctor visits and there are blood tests etc Even Quinn has a Vet appointment in September. This way I don't forget what month I should go to what doctor! It ran over a bit this year as today was the last of the appointments. Eye doctor today-all is well, cataract surgery is just amazing! I've also done the primary care thing, a mammogram (Chooky and Judy will be glad to know) again all well. Then there was the Orthopedic one year follow-up on the knee replacement. That was not so great. I seem to fall into the 5% of folks that have significant pain-his possible explanations were: infection ( blood work negative so no), the button under the knee cap moved, or possible allergies to either the metal or the plastic. There would need to be blood tests for the allergies and I would have to pay for them out of pocket which would be fine but all those possibles would require surgery to fix. At the moment I am not willing to admit myself into a hospital for a non-life-threatening problem! SO, I am wearing a compression sleeve for now and that really helps. Quinn and I have been taking daily walks around the neighborhood, not our usual 3 miles but we'll get there.
September is also the month when the gardens begin to look scraggly, I have only a few pots left to empty and clean, the big garden beds to ready for winter and the usual grass cutting and soon leaf raking. All the Christmas cactus have been brought inside and hauled up to the second floor for the winter. Several have buds on then already. The sweet potatoes are from a large pot I planted, inspired by Denice's VERY big pot, not too bad considering the size of the pot. I will say getting them out of the pot proved to be difficult!
I did a dismal job on the Want To Do list for September, very dismal, not even worth mentioning! I'm not putting up an October list!
October is for leaves turning and falling here. The temperature is up and down but the trend is down-we are to have 80F/30C days this week but dryer so not turning on the AC again this year.
October is a big month for cleaning in advance of the holidays and I've already made a good start! The Garage is clean, even swept and my office has left the first floor and returned to it's usual place upstairs and is tidy! It seems I re-arrange some rooms ALL the time! The first floor is next and then the studio. Boring stuff but I'll be more settled when it happens.
I'm still working on how to do all the new technology, I think I fixed the no reply thing. Now if I could only fix the photo in the header thing! If I don't figure it out soon I think I'll just take it out!
Stay healthy!
Blessed Be.
Sunday, October 4, 2020
September stitching
Also in September I finished all the nine patches for the Civil war quilt! Next up for that is to sew the rows together. Another October goal.
Friday, October 2, 2020
New Address
Well, Hum.
I've been away for a while, sorry.
Not my fault and not the fault of Blogster.
(Who'd thunk that was true?)
Anyway, when I started this blog 12 years ago I tied it to a different email address.
I hadn't figured out how to change the email addy but I could access the blog so I didn't worry about it. (Okay that is my fault.)
Almost a month ago now my other address disappeared from blogster.
Could not sign onto the account.
Contacted Customer service and after two or more weeks they finally said they had deleted the account due to inactivity.
I am in the process of putting it up here.
Please.
Be patient.
Apple updated my operating system and I lost the use of my photo editing software and my word processing/spreadsheet software as not compatible. Ugh.
There were a couple of other computer programs that changed as well at the same time so I've been trying to figure it all out.
I have lots to tell you!
Soon!